When it came to Tommy, we didn’t know if we were having a boy or a girl. This was so helpful when it came to a registry. I feel like we leaned toward the minimal side of things (and were glad we did). We got all of the essentials and felt very equipped when he arrived - all that was left to buy was the fun stuff like cute baby boy onesies and teeny tiny hats and socks.

For baby #2 though, my focus is a little different. There are so many things I learned as a new mom and I want to optimize our experience with baby boy #2. Plus, make it easy to chase a toddler while holding a newborn (just kidding, I’m not a superhero!). So here is my list of wants for baby boy divided into essentials and like to haves.

THE ESSENTIALS:

• Newborn + Size 1 Diapers

• Haakaa Manual Breast Pump

• Hands Free Pump (I’ve heard the Elvie is superb!)

• Second Baby Monitor

• New Pacifiers

• Second White Noise Machine

• Baby Glider Attachment for Stroller // Double Stroller and/or attachments for current

THE LIKE TO HAVES:

• New Sheets

• Magnetic Onesies (I didn’t even know these existed until recently but I’ve heard great things and can imagine they make nighttime changes SO MUCH easier!)

• Ergo Baby Carrier (I already have several wraps but like the idea of baby being more secure with a toddler running around)

• Additional free-standing cradle option for baby:

  • Mamaroo (I have heard this is touch and go - babies either love or hate. May be good to borrow and test before diving in.)

  • Dock-a-tot

  • Baby Bjorn (We had this with Tommy and it was so great! Highly recommend)

• If we need to do formula again, I am definitely investing in this formula maker: Baby Brezza

Especially since we are having the same gender, I feel pretty good about what we have as a foundation. I asked two dear mama friends their considerations for second baby and here’s what they asked:

• Do you need an additional car seat or to upgrade the eldest’s?

• Do you need a second changing station or a crib?

• What’s’ your stroller situation? Do you need a double? Attachments for current?

• If you breastfed or plan to and used a pump, do you need to upgrade your pump? Do you need to replace parts and pieces?

• If you used bottles or plan to, do you need to replace nipples and rings?

• Do you have a secure place for baby (think toddler hands and needing to get up suddenly) like a dock-a-tot, Baby Bjorn or Mama-roo? (linking all below)

If you a mom of two or more (or have a second on the way) what would you recommend? Taking all the suggestions as we plunge into 1:1 defense mode with two little boys in just a few months.

xx

Caroline